the hardest thing to do in this life is give up  control. control over others feelings, actions, choices. lately i have been dealing with this idea- struggling with the frustration of not being in  control, and relinquishing it to those that i feel don’t deserve it. my mantra these days was at first a frustrated “whatever” but now that has evolved into the old song  song saying, “whatever will be, will be”. i hope those out there dealing with the feeling of losing control can take a little solice in this.